MARRIAGE COUNSELLING & COUPLES THERAPY FOR INFIDELITY RECOVERY | ONLINE ACROSS ONTARIO
INFIDELITY
is a Lifequake
that rocks your whole
WORLD
REGISTERED PSYCHOTHERAPIST • SAME-DAY & NEXT-DAY APPOINTMENTS • WEEKEND AVAILABILITY
You can’t undo what happened.
But you can find a way forward together.
Infidelity is a lifequake. It comes out of nowhere and shakes the foundation of everything you thought you knew about your marriage, your partner, the life you’ve built together, and sometimes even yourself.
You know you still love each other.
You know you want to stay together.
But right now, sometimes the hurt and anger feel stronger than the love, and neither of you knows how to live with what happened or how to move forward from here.
Maybe you’re having the same conversations over and over. One of you needs answers, reassurance, and some sign that it’s safe to trust again.
The other is trying desperately to repair the damage but feels like nothing they say or do is enough.
You’re both exhausted.
And you know you just can’t keep going on like this.
FOR THE PARTNER WHO WAS BETRAYED
You don’t have to be ready to forgive.
You just need to be willing to take the first step.
I get that your world has been torn apart and it feels like you don’t have any solid ground to stand on.
Whether you’re consumed by rage, pain, fear, or shock, or feeling all over the place from moment-to-moment, I’m ready to hear where you’re at.
One of your biggest fears about therapy may be that someone is going to tell you it is time to forgive, move on, or stop bringing it up.
I am not going to rush you past something that changed your world forever.
We will make room for the hurt, the anger, the questions, and the need to understand what happened.
You do not have to be ready to “get over it.”
You just have to be willing to start figuring out what you need in order to feel safe enough to move forward.
FOR THE PARTNER WHO WAS UNFAITHFUL
You made a choice that caused real damage.
But that does not define who you are.
You may be carrying guilt, shame, fear, and the constant sense that one wrong word could make everything worse.
You are trying to be transparent, answer the questions, and prove that you are sorry, but nothing seems to land.
And you may be worried that therapy will become 90 minutes of being blamed, judged, or ganged up on.
That is not how I work.
Before becoming a therapist, I spent 18 years as a federal parole officer. Very little shocks me, and I know how to sit with guilt, shame, accountability, and the question: How do I come back from what I’ve done?
I will hold you accountable without reducing you to your worst decision.
We will work on understanding what happened, responding differently to your partner’s pain, and rebuilding trust step by step.
LET’S BE CLEAR ABOUT THIS FROM THE START
I’m here for both of you.
I’m not here to judge either of you or pick sides.
My job is to help you understand what each of you is carrying, get out of the cycle that keeps making things worse, and start doing the kind of work that makes repair possible.
You are allowed to be angry.
You are allowed to be ashamed.
You are allowed to cry, swear, laugh, and speak your truth even when it’s hard to say… or to hear.
This is hard work.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
The truth about what your
path forward looks like
The goal isn’t to rebuild the marriage you had. It’s to build the marriage you want now.
You don’t need to pretend everything is fine, rush toward forgiveness, or figure out how to “go back to normal.” There really isn’t a going back.
I help couples work through what happened, reconnect, and deliberately build the marriage that feels right for who they are now and what they want moving forward.
I call this your Marriage 2.0
MEET KELLY VICK
Hi, I’m Kelly! I show up in therapy the same way I show up in real life: real, engaged, and fully human.
When your marriage is at stake, therapy is serious work. But it doesn’t have to feel stiff, cold, or clinical. I laugh and swear with clients. I’ve shed a tear in session when something really hits home. And when the moment calls for it, I’m not afraid to drop a truth bomb that cuts through the noise.
Infidelity therapy is hard enough without spending extra energy trying to look composed or say the right thing. So there’s no need for any of that here!
Show up real. Show up messy. You don’t have to pretend with me.
Here’s why very little shocks me…
Before becoming a therapist, I spent 18 years as a federal parole officer. That taught me a lot about guilt, shame, accountability, and rebuilding after life has gone badly off course. It also means that, as a therapist, very little shocks me.
I’m completely comfortable sitting with both betrayed partners and unfaithful partners, even when the emotions are intense and the story is complicated. Whatever you’re carrying into the room, you don’t have to carry it perfectly, and it doesn’t have to be pretty.
Just be yourselves and be ready to do the work. We’ll figure out the rest together.
REGISTERED PSYCHOTHERAPIST • COUNSELLING SINCE 1999 • COUPLES THERAPIST SINCE 2020
MY APPROACH
How I help couples move forward after infidelity
What you don’t need is more painful conversations that just go in circles.
What you do need is a clear path forward.
Together, we’ll move through four phases to help you get out of crisis mode, understand what happened, and start rebuilding your relationship.
01. Stability
We lower the emotional intensity so you can think, talk, and listen without every conversation blowing up.
02. Truth
We work through the questions, make sense of what happened, and build from honesty rather than unanswered questions or half-truths.
03. Healing
We work with the anger, grief, guilt, fear, and triggers so the betrayal stops running every conversation.
04. Rebuilding
We shift from “How do we survive this?” to “What do we want our marriage to become now?”
This isn’t about pretending the lifequake
never happened.
It’s about building something solid
even after it did.
THERAPY FOR INFIDELITY RECOVERY
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Individual Therapy for Betrayed Partners
A private space to process the hurt, anger, confusion, and upheaval of betrayal.
I’ll help you make sense of what happened, heal from the trauma of betrayal, reconnect with yourself, and figure out what comes next for you and your relationship. -
Couples Therapy for Infidelity & Betrayal Recovery
A focused space to slow things down, make sense of what happened, and start finding your way back to each other.
Together we’ll work through the hurt, rebuild trust, and create a relationship that feels worth choosing again. -
Individual Therapy for Unfaithful Partners
A private space to understand what led you here, take meaningful responsibility, and start making things right.
I’ll help you work through the guilt, shame, and uncertainty while learning how to rebuild trust.
WHAT MAKES MY APPROACH DIFFERENT
Therapy built around what it takes to rebuild a relationship after infidelity
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When your world has been rocked by infidelity, you need more than a rushed 50-minute appointment.
You need specialized care from a therapist who understands the lifequake you’re in and knows how to help you get through it together.
My practice is intentionally small and focused on infidelity recovery, so I can give couples the time, attention, and flexibility this work requires.
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Couples sessions are 90 minutes long so we have time to slow things down, make sure both of you have the space you need to feel seen and heard, and do meaningful work without cutting the session short just as we’re getting somewhere.
Also available are double-length, 3-hour intensive sessions. They're great when things feel raw and you want to make real progress fast.
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When the lifequake is still fresh, sometimes 90 minutes once a week simply isn’t enough.
Spending more time together in session can help us work through what’s happening more efficiently and build enough momentum to accelerate the healing process.
For that reason, some couples choose two 90-minute sessions per week or one three-hour intensive each week.
WHAT INFIDELITY RECOVERY LOOKS LIKE
What becomes possible
Here are some of the changes you’ll notice as we work together:
✓ More clarity
A better understanding of what happened, what needs to change, and what rebuilding trust will actually require.
✓ Calmer conversations
Less spiralling, shutting down, defending, and rehashing the same fight.
✓ A stronger sense of safety
More transparency, more consistency, and a clearer sense that your relationship is becoming emotionally safer again.
✓ A deeper understanding of each other
A clearer sense of what each of you needs now in order to heal, reconnect, and move forward.
✓ A real path to rebuilding trust
Meaningful repair, accountability, and actions that make trust possible again.
✓ A marriage you are choosing on purpose
A relationship shaped by more honesty, intention, and connection than the one you had before the affair.
HERE’S MY BOTTOM-LINE COMMITMENT TO YOU
If you’re all in on saving your marriage,
I’m all in with you.
HOW TO GET STARTED
GETTING STARTED IS SIMPLE
1
Book your first appointment.
Ready to jump in? Book your first 90-minute couples session and we’ll get started right away. If you have questions or want to make sure we’re a good fit first, you’re also welcome to start with a free 20-minute online consultation.
2
Complete the intake process.
Before our first session, you’ll each complete your own intake package. This gives me important context about your relationship, what happened, and what each of you is experiencing so we can make good use of our time together from the start.
3
Start weekly sessions.
Early on, consistency matters a lot. Weekly sessions give us enough momentum to get out of crisis mode, understand what happened, and begin rebuilding safety and trust instead of spending each session catching up on the latest explosion.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Most of the couples I work with are married but I also welcome long-term committed couples navigating infidelity and betrayal.
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Yes, I also offer individual therapy for individuals who have experienced infidelity and betrayal in their relationships.
I work with both betrayed partners and partners who have broken trust through infidelity or betrayal, such as keeping secrets or being untruthful. -
Yes. My practice is fully online, and I work with adults and couples located anywhere in Ontario.
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Yes, I am able to work with clients who reside outside of Ontario.
Please note that I am not permitted to offer services in the following provinces: Nova Scotia, New Brunswick, and Prince Edward Island.
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All sessions are completed online through my secure client portal. Many couples find that they appreciate online therapy because it allows them to join from different locations. You’re welcome to join our sessions from your home, office, or anywhere else that you can find a private, comfortable space.
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My services are covered by most employee benefits plans and you will receive a receipt upon payment of each session that you can submit for reimbursement.
If it’s important to be able to use your benefits, I recommend that you contact your insurance provider to confirm that you have coverage for the services of a Registered Psychotherapist.
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Couples therapy sessions are 90 minutes in length and the rate is $350.
Individual therapy sessions are 60 minutes in length and the rate is $225.3-hour intensive sessions are $675 for individuals and $700 for couples.
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I offer morning and afternoon sessions both during the week and on weekends. My earliest appointment is typically 10 am and my last appointment of the day typically starts by 4:30 pm.
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Yes. I offer a free 20-minute consultation if you’d like to talk things through before booking therapy.
It’s completely optional. If you already know you’re ready to get started, you can book a full session right away.
If you do choose a consultation, we’ll use the time to talk about what’s happening, what you both need right now, answer your questions, and see whether I’m the right fit to help.
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I know that when infidelity is fresh, waiting weeks for help can feel impossible.
I keep space in my schedule for new clients and requests so I can usually see new clients within 48 hours.
Same-day, next-day, and weekend appointments are available. -
To book an appointment within the next 24 hours, please email me directly at kelly@kellyvick.ca.
For appointments more than 24 hours away, you are welcome to book through my online booking portal here.
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You’ll receive a confirmation email immediately after booking, then on the date of your appointment you’ll receive another email with the link to join me online.
If you’ve booked a first session, you’ll also receive an email inviting you to complete your online intake package.
Please note that, for couples, each partner needs to complete their own intake package.
